Most Women Love Shopping
Most Men Do Not Like Shopping
1) Set your mind to entertain her while shopping. Continue along with this intention while shopping because you want to make your wife happy. Almost all women love shopping, so as a husband, this is your obligation to make your wife happier and she will love you more if you do this because you understand what she wants.
2) Clear all your activities on that day but solely to her. Do not make any appointment with your friend during that time i.e. play futsal, gathering or etc. Women usually take longer time to shopping compare to men.Otherwise make a compromise with your wife i.e. ok this afternoon I will accompany you shopping but at night I will play futsal with my friend.So both of you will be happy.Give and take is one of the most important things in marriage.
3) While driving on the way to shopping complexes, you should ask your wife what goods to buy, what criteria, what type, the expected price range (you won’t be surprised that she will come out with a lot of comparison list for the price for one type of goods, including the same types of goods available in the UK ,hehehe.) This will make your wife alert and appreaciate your actions as she knows that you will help and tell her back if she forgot to buy some items.
4) When you arrived at the store, try looking for items that she looking for. Do not stand at the store door or leave her alone while she looking for items to buy.
5) If she asks for “second opinion”, give your best opinion and not just OK kot, it’s up to you or whateverlaa.Your wife will appreaciate you more if you gave your best opinion as she really want to buy the items that you approve/look beautiful on your eyes.
6) While shopping, watch your behaviour.Do not stare at other women while your wife shopping.Maybe some of you do not know, women have another eye at her back and she will know if you stare or looking at other women especially beautiful women.So,watch yourself k?
7) Give her a surprise while shopping i.e. have a lunch/dinner at her favourite restaurant, buy her a present, or smile/praise her for a good choice of items that she bought. However, praise her only if she make a good decision .If she make a wrong decision while shopping, do not scold her but tell her do not make the same mistake again in the future.
You can refer to this entry for a Malay Version:
http://eyriqazz.blogspot.com/2009/10/tips-untuk-lelaki-ketika-isteri-membeli.html
P/s: I already tried it and it worked for me but sometimes I also forgot this tips . However, as husband we must do our best to make our wife happier and enjoy living with us as this is for a long term future. Do not take her as granted as women have a fragile heart and not easy to understand.
Good Luck and happy trying!!
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if only my hubby read ur entry, it would make a difference to me!
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eyriqazz Reply:
January 12th, 2010 at 8:57 PM
Setiap orang berbeza..dlm perkahwinan mestilah ada tolak ansurkan?
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good tips. I could only wish my hubby would be more understanding when it comes to shopping.
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eyriqazz Reply:
January 12th, 2010 at 9:00 PM
biasalah lelaki,lain padang lain belalang…
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hihiiiii untk tips no 6.
hubby saya kalo pasal futsal sorry ler.. no compromise!!!
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eyriqazz Reply:
January 12th, 2010 at 9:01 PM
ramai lelaki tak compromise pasal futsal..better futsal daripada melilau kan?
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harusss nak paksa hubby i baca entry nih hik3x
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eyriqazz Reply:
January 12th, 2010 at 9:05 PM
paksa jgn tak paksa…
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alhamdulillah.. husband saya tak pernah komplen kalau saya ajak dia shopping. dia memang mudah untuk diajak ‘membeli tingkap’. hehehe.. errr.. tapi part yang ‘surprise while shopping’ tu takde la pulak. huuu~
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eyriqazz Reply:
January 12th, 2010 at 9:07 PM
syukur Alhamdulillah….tidak mudah bagi lelaki utk menemani bershopping..hehehe
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Eyriqazz!! Harus me minta moi hubby baca especially Point 3, 4 & 7! But…am okay with Point 6 & in fact me myself lurve to oogle at beautiful, gorgeous ladies! ekekek…errr..don’t think something wrong with me, me just appreciate beauty & love to experiment with beauty-related stuff (yang halal jelah…)Plus, looking forward moi hubby’s preferences…in case me needs some upgrading in that manner…but kalu dia fikir lain…grrrr…
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hmm, an enjoyable read!
3> important for my husband so that i x ‘ter’beli 5 brg when i only need 2! hihi..
4> actually i always feel it’s better for him to lepak n jaga my boys while i shop, duk kat bench luar ke.. or go get icecream for d boys.. then i can shop in peace hihi..
5> & 6> haha.. this is typical male la eyriqazz…haha.. just to get us to shop faster! ok ok ok.. suma ok..
and lookin at awek cun tu us wifeys have to play along je. my husband & i kdang2 discuss, “eh lawa ke? rambut dia la lawa..” 
this is better than him usha senyap2!! hihi
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Salam Eryqazz. Maybe I am lucky for I masih single mingle. But not really, bcoz I have to go shopping with my Mom and sis;D (tapi saya jadi macam yang Syiqim komen kat atas ni la
..)
Tapi, kadang2 bila keluar window2 shopping dengan kawan2 dan sepupu2 lelaki, tak terasa pula boringnya;-)
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Saya dengan suami terbalik laaaaaa suami kalo shopping boleh patah kaki saya!! Dia punya price comparison bukan dalam satu building tp dari MALL A dan MALL B!!!
Dia akan tanya pendapat saya kalo nak membeli barang yang mahal seperti kasut/lappie walopon kadang kadang saya fed up sb semua barang tersebut bukan minat saya!
Saya lebih senang tgk barang secara rawak dari belek satu persatu! HAhahah@!`
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nice tips, but for me i prefer Mr hubby tunggu kat luar sambil main Ipod dier n layan my son instead of teman me shopping.
i feel peace if he is not around, sbb nak beli aper pun boleh.. huhuh
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we both like window hopping!my hubby lebih kepada gadget2 kamera , me into make up..suke tgk!
tak semestinya beli..layan mata tu satu terapi gak!haha..
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gosh..typo!shopping bukan hopping toink toink tu wakakaka..
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waa,..tak boleh dpt kat mana2 pengalaman ni..tapi suami saya takde masalah ni sgt, sbb isterinya weird sikit, tak berapa suka bershopping..isk,..mcm mana nak jana ekonomi negara nih.
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